Men allegedly fled crash which caused 'life-changing injuries'

Life-changing injuries (as well called traumatic or catastrophic injuries) tin can result in brain injury, spinal injury, limb loss, loss of sight or hearing, burns, paralysis and chronic pain. They are commonly caused by incidents on the road, falls or assaults. We spoke with people who were injured in various ways including swimming and skiing accidents, road traffic accidents, through medical procedures and falls. One man was injured while on duty in Transitional islamic state of afghanistan.

Aiden describes the injury in which his arm was left paralysed.

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Aiden describes the injury in which his arm was left paralysed.

Age at interview: 25

Sexual activity: Male

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Tell me about your injury.

In 2007 when I was 20 I was riding my motorcycle too fast around a bend, decided information technology would be a practiced idea to go up on the kerb and so as non to be on the wrong side of the road on a blind corner, and hit some bit of street furniture – I'm not sure what information technology was, not a road sign I don't think considering it was not lit upward – and ended up at 90 degrees! I think it was made of plastic simply could be wrong. I broke my left wrist, shattered my left kneecap into many pieces, bankrupt a bone in my neck (I forget which!) and, nearly importantly, damaged the nerves in my shoulder pregnant an well-nigh total paralysis of my left arm, the merely movement I was left with was a small-scale amount in the wrist (about a quarter of what information technology should exist) and the ability to move my fingers, but only about one-half of the force and dexterity that I had before.

Sometimes people didn't know exactly how their injuries were caused because they lost consciousness and there were no witnesses to the incident (or witnesses disagreed). Bryan went to buy fast food after a dark out with university friends and was found four hours later at the foot of an underpass staircase with a head injury.

Sam'due south injury was acquired when he was run over by a lorry, but he does not call back how it happened...

Sam'south injury was caused when he was run over past a lorry, but he does not remember how it happened...

Age at interview: 29

Sexual practice: Male

I was run over by a lorry, I think about 28 tonnes. I was cycling over to a daughter's firm that I was seeing, and I don't know what happened, because I was in a coma for 2 weeks. And considering at that place was two cameras and one was pointing the wrong manner and one was out of film, and there were two witnesses who disagreed about what happened. I went into a coma.

The lorry ran me over at the chest and sort of crushed a couple of vertebrae and bankrupt my shoulder, shattered my shoulder, and broke pretty much every rib I have into like three or iv pieces and I retrieve I was, I had my lungs collapsed. I was kind of like dying. And then the rapid… I was quite close to [hospital name] and the rapid response people got out there.

And they sliced into my chest, and on the road and resuscitated me, and then sped me to hospital. And so it was, information technology was quite a familiar place where it happened actually on [street name] and yeah, and I was, then I was sort of dying, and in a coma and in and out of things.

In the confusion after his injury, Nick Y took responsibility even though he was not sure who...

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Age at interview: 68

Sex: Male

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Well every bit the driver came over I'm in this sea of pain considering a 12 tonne omnibus has just run over my leg. I was absolutely in agony. I was in and out of consciousness I call back and also my oral cavity tasted of tarmac. I sort of striking the road and banged my, you know. I saw this shape coming towards me and I said to him, "I'm sorry. It was my mistake. I'1000 sorry." And I think I was really saying, "Please aid me." Anyway I mention that considering when information technology came to a criminal prosecution that excused the driver. They said, "Mr Blackness said information technology was his mistake. Stop of case."

Often afterward life-changing injuries people don't remember their injury occurring and can be surprised to wake up in hospital, days, weeks or sometimes months later. This can be because of post-traumatic amnesia, retentivity problems or the strong medication they are prescribed in infirmary. People may never remember what happened, which can worry them. Sometimes they tried to regain their memory through speaking with a trauma specialist or filling in details provided by family unit members, friends, information from hospital reports and newspaper articles. CCTV footage could as well be used to notice out what happened.

Louise, an artist, is doing a photography project to try to assistance her think what happened. She...

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Age at interview: 31

Sex: Female

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People that have lost memory or been displaced from certain events in their life, they become more than inclined to photograph things more fervently because, because of the loss of time, and the loss of something you continue to record. So that could be something to do with it.

And how exercise you think not knowing has impacted on your life?

Well I've been doing this project full fourth dimension, which has only been photographing my body in all these foreign places. A lot of the positions I do, I look like I've fallen. And so, I'm kind of like on the ground in like fallen positions, and so perchance it's like I'thou trying to see what happened through pictures.

Does it bother yous that y'all can't retrieve what happened?

Slightly yeah, yeah, it does.

And why is that exercise you recall?

Because the nature of the accident was and then baroque, I would be curious to know how that could have happened. How I could have climbed upwardly? I don't do climbing or anything. If you've had a few drinks you're not likely to climb anything strange. I'm not.

Information technology must be hard to think nigh something so significant happening and you not remembering what led up to it or the actual process.

I kind of remember things happen for a reason. This is why I'm going to go back there to see if I recollect anything, only I mean it's maybe something that I did. Maybe I climbed that? And and so if 1 were to climb something like that then one has a decease wish, which I don't believe I've ever had, only I have, in terms of performance wise, you know. I have used functioning in my work and stuff, but I've never washed anything to a dangerous level. It could have been an accident. It's a strange i.

When he was in a coma, Wesley's mum fabricated a photo album of him and used information technology when he came round to...

When he was in a coma, Wesley'southward mum made a photograph album of him and used it when he came circular to...

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I barbarous off a moped in Turkey.

Okay.

Well that's all I know. From what I was told, or what the paper cuttings and that said. On a moped, striking a pothole, came off the moped and I was in a coma for like 4 months. So me, personally, I don't actually know too much about what happened apart from Mum and my family unit keeping notes and newspaper cuttings and photos, almost what happened and what I went through to become to where I am today.

So, on that ground the memory just sort of forgets all of that. Which is probably a good thing, because I wouldn't peculiarly desire to remember and go over the injury every night earlier I go to bed, which is quite nice. Which, no, I really savour that flake.

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Age at interview: 42

Sex: Male

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I was then transferred from [place] to [place] in [identify], that'south where my family lived, nearer them. That's where I learnt again to walk and talk. Then I was transferred from at that place to [rehabilitation hospital] rehab in [place]. That'south in June of '01, two months after my crash. I woke up in that i twenty-four hours thinking, OK I'm in a hotel room, my clothes are there, this is either holiday or – if so where's girlfriend? In my bed? Or I'm with work, [investment depository financial institution] and abroad on concern. Where'due south my suit?

And I walked out of my room to the nurses, and I said, "Excuse me where am I?" "You're in [rehabilitation hospital] rehab in [identify]." "I'm sorry." "Yous're in [rehabilitation infirmary] rehab in [place]? "Why am I here?" "You've got a head injury." "What are you on about?" "You had a motor bike crash." I said, "If I'd had a motor wheel crash, I'd know about it." "No. Yous've got amnesia." I said, "Oh yeah, amnesia. Show me a report or something because I don't believe y'all. I'd know almost it. I don't believe in amnesia.

But the best thing they said to me was, "Await at your scars." Again I've got a trachy scar hither, my left arm was pinned, without those scars they are the only memory I've got of the crash. I retrieve the motorcycle. The job at [investment bank]. The day itself, zero. Walking once again, talking again zero. So in a fashion I'k glad I've got the scars to prove to me what'southward happened to me. Hm.

Not remembering how the injury happened suited some people; Nick Z described his amnesia as a "self-preservation mechanism" and Kenneth thought it was 'your mind'due south mode of shutting things off so y'all can carry on and survive'.

Some people remained conscious at the time of the injury and could conspicuously remember what happened. Dave dived from the embankment into a wave while on holiday and fractured his cervix. He said the actual injury was painless but the drowning awareness was more traumatic. Bill, who was striking by a car while riding his motorbike, described the "unbelievable hurting" he experienced and how he thought people could hear him in Central London as he screamed so loudly.

Dave sustained a spinal string injury on holiday when he broke his cervix diving into the ocean.

Dave sustained a spinal string injury on vacation when he broke his neck diving into the sea.

Age at interview: 31

Sexual activity: Male person

 I suffered a severe spinal string injury in September 2005 at the age of 25. I was living and working in London at the fourth dimension. Iii years after graduation from university I went on holiday to Portugal with a number of friends. 1 day while on the beach I went downwardly to the water for a swim, dived into the water into a wave off my feet, and suffered a spinal fracture of the neck, resulting in immediate paralysis from the neck down. And I suppose luckily I had two friends that were with me at the time, because obviously complete paralysis means you can't move. So I was confront down drowning in the h2o but the two friends and some passers-by managed to get me out of the water in time, on to the beach. I have to say that it was a fairly painless experience, and certainly the well-nigh difficult sensation was drowning.

Bryan sustained a encephalon injury when he fell off a platform at a tube station. He was reassured by...

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Age at interview: 36

Sex: Male

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I had been out drinking with an alleged friend, who was a new friend. Because of engineering works I had to take an unfamiliar route habitation on the tube. I got on the tube at [station proper name]. My last retention is of existence on the tube, and thinking, God, there aren't whatever announcements of where do I get off? And, subsequent to that, I walked off the edge of a platform that didn't accept any tactile edging on it whatever, similar it was supposed to have, and whacked my caput off of steel rails vi feet below essentially. And passed out.

I regained consciousness. I didn't have whatsoever idea where I was. Sort of looked up and saw this roof thing, and sort of thought, "That's kind of weird, why am I lying here?" This guy was in forepart of me, I recall he said, "I'm a Tube supervisor." He also said something else. I can't call back what that was. I still didn't have whatever idea where I was to exist honest. It's a weird sensation to have admittedly nothing going through your head, but that'southward kind of what it was like. I was so stunned, I just sort of lay there. I remember I tried to become up and the guy sort of went, "No, no, no, don't." And I and so heard the alert going off, telling people to evacuate the station. So I call up I tried to get up again, and the guy was like, "No, no, no, no. Stay where yous are. Stay where you are." And then the ambulance coiffure arrived and that's when I got really, really scared, considering they sort of went, "Is the current off?" And I started putting ii and 2 together and went, "Oh my God! Oh shit!" Because I could experience gravel nether my paw and I was sort of going, this is actually weird. I don't understand. I just don't understand this. I don't understand annihilation. And and then they climbed down and I have to say they were fantastic. They were really, really skilful. Considering the guy that basically just saturday and maintained physical contact with me the whole time, which was incredibly comforting in that situation, just having somebody in that location who would sort of hold on to y'all and go along reassuring you lot. Considering I recall just keeping repeating, "I'm actually, actually scared. I'm really, really scared."

And I became very, very aggressive, because I was sort of going, "Where'southward my stuff?" My mobile had actually fallen out of my pocket when I'd fallen at the tracks. I'd had a light jacket on. I remember becoming actually, really aggressive and sort of going, "Where's my stuff? Where'due south my stuff?"

Life-irresolute injuries can be caused by other people, accidentally or intentionally. For some of those nosotros interviewed fights broke out during a night out or they were mugged. Others were injured through hitting and run incidents or through commuter mistake. Occasionally a minor injury could become life-irresolute fifty-fifty after medical treatment.

Ambrose tripped and broke his talocrural joint for the 3rd time, and needed to have information technology reconstructed. He...

Ambrose tripped and broke his ankle for the third time, and needed to have information technology reconstructed. He...

Age at interview: 44

Sex: Male

And and then the plastic surgeons came, the bone doctors came and microbiology doc came and they, so the microbiology doc said, "What in that location is growing in in that location" – and then plainly looking at the x-rays – he was saying, "It would be very, very difficult to actually completely articulate it of infection. It would be, you know, 4 months of intravenous antibiotics then goodness knows how long oral antibiotics." And unfortunately, well fortunately for me, but unfortunately for the plastic surgery team was that the pain wasn't being controlled properly. And so I was maxim to them, "Well yes, I tin meet that your new fangle dangle machine is healing the tissue, but I can't put whatsoever weight on information technology." So for me to be able to go back to work and y'all know, back to normal life information technology's no good because I can't employ it as a foot, and an ankle and a leg. And because that would then be, you know, similar a planned amputation, their procedure, which is right to make sure everybody, you know, the person who'due south asking for the amputation and the doctors that are, you know, going to perform it, you lot know, nosotros had meetings with the psychologist, the leg amputation team, the plastic surgeons, the orthopaedics, who after give-and-take and discussion with me, and you know, they'd … because I'd known them for years they were able to say, "Ambrose has had this for a long time. He knows what information technology feels like. He knew when nosotros first did the reconstruction there was a chance, well non a chance, information technology probably would demand taking off at some point in the future, and it appears that nosotros've got to that bespeak now. That at present is the right time to have it amputated."

People felt differently about their assailants. Some talked about forgiving the person, while others felt unable to every bit the impact on their lives was so severe. One man who was badly beaten in a random attack said he felt a bit angry that the friend he was with did not intervene to help him, merely the friend said he was held dorsum.

He doesn't hate the girl who caused his injury, but Bill cannot forgive her. The experience has...

He doesn't hate the girl who acquired his injury, but Bill cannot forgive her. The experience has...

Age at interview: 57

Sex: Male

Bill' Yes. Information technology is bizarre. But you retrieve it, that'southward the matter. And I remember screams too, just information technology turns out actually when I spoke to the girl, she got prosecuted dangerous driving and after she pled guilty and after the case had been settled in the Magistrates Court, we were outside and she simply came up to me, she ran upward to me, and she flung herself in to my arms… Yes. And she just said, "Sorry, I'thousand deplorable."

Catherine' "I'll never drive again," she said didn't she?

Bill' And I said "That's stupid and I was crying every bit well. It was stupid of course you've got to bulldoze again". I said, to her, "You're only a young girl." Her parents were very concerned, considering apparently they'd meet both sides of it. And I'thou not sure of the whole story, only obviously the daughter had done this to me, but I think somewhere in their family unit at that place was a victim as well, so they, they've experienced both sides of it, and we recollect, from lots of different other things that actually we've been at a funeral a few years previously of this girl'southward aunt. And the aunt, Catherine had nursed in hospital, and because Catherine sings or did at that point in time, she was asked to sing at the funeral, as a personal asking past the person that had died. And we think this girl was actually at this funeral. So we'd met but not met. Our paths had crossed and gone again. But the mother asked whether or not, how I felt nigh her. And I, i.e. her daughter, and I said, "Well I don't think I can ever forgive her, merely I don't hate her." And I'm still of that opinion. I've tried to forgive, only I, you know, I've been through and then many problems subsequent to, yous know, to the accident, that I don't, I don't recall she deserves to be forgiven. But I haven't got it in my heart to hate her, because she didn't mean it. No she didn't mean information technology.

And I call back they were grateful for that, and then I don't know how other people would deal with information technology, but that's the manner I dealt with information technology, you know, because if she had deliberately, you know, done a stupid motion or manoeuvre or annihilation, you lot know. But it wasn't; she thought she had a green arrow at that place and she just made a split determination well a conclusion in a moment of a time, you know, a split 2nd conclusion. And got it wrong. And yous know, I shouldn't hate her for that. But she doesn't deserve forgiveness. Mayhap I will at some bespeak in life, I don't know. Mayhap? I don't know.

Sometimes the perpetrators were defenseless and imprisoned, fined, or given community service. I man was deported when he was plant guilty of hit and run. Several people thought the sentences given were too short and they felt aroused most this. Jack felt there was no point in existence aroused because "no judgement would make upward for a lost limb".

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And the person who caused your injury was prosecuted?

Yep he was prosecuted. Got a two year sentence, served i year and and so he was deported – he was an illegal immigrant. I wasn't too bothered that he got a brusque sentence, it didn't really bother me. What sentence could have made up for a lost limb? There wasn't a sentence so that didn't bother me at all. He was deported and then he shouldn't take been in here. That was a bit annoying. I was quite angry at the regime really that they allowed him to exist in the state and it was their fault, it was edge control's mistake for allowing him to go in. Again that subsided, that sort of anger. It was more my parents really – they were more than aroused virtually the whole state of affairs. I've not been. I've been OK with information technology. He was insured, the guy – don't know how that happened – just he had car insurance, which again has benefitted me. I've non got a lot to be aroused about really in terms of what's happened. He was caught, he was jailed, he was deported and I've got someone to sue so, it could accept been worse. Could have died too, there's that. I don't know what he looks like or anything. My policeman brought photos, simply I didn't desire to look at him, I didn't want to know what he looked like, it was something I was quite keen on – not seeing his face.

Why is that?

I did non desire to have the guy who'd done this to me etched in my caput for the rest of my life, I didn't want that. Merely I was thinking well-nigh it the other day – if I was to come across him I don't think I'd get angry at him because I think it'south had such a positive effect on my life this accident, I don't think I could get angry at him, I actually couldn't. I'd be tempted to thank him if I'm honest with you. I'm not just saying that; I genuinely hateful that. It's had such a good impact on my life. I'm not angry. Mum and Dad are aroused at him more because of what it'due south put the whole family unit through and them as well. Just seeing their son, their eldest son go through all that, information technology can't exist dainty. I almost experience that I got away with all that you know the whole emotional scarring. I don't accept any of that; they have more of that than me and then.

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By the fourth dimension I'd met him, the human that had attacked him had already been in jail and come out of jail, because I think he had xviii months, just he but did well-nigh 9 months of it. So within nine months he was, you know, he'd done his fourth dimension. To me, when I'd heard that it was definitely, definitely not long enough for what had happened to [hubby's name]. And like [married man'southward name] says, you know, he'll be on medication for the rest of his life. He'll notwithstanding have certain problems for the rest of his life. And this guy has washed that and he'southward, he'southward done his flake and now he'south back out at that place doing whatever he wants to practise. And that's another thing [husband'due south proper name] finds unfair. He finds it very unfair that, you know, he's been left with these problems – can't work, can't drive, ever has to take medication – and yet somebody, the guy that done it is just out there doing whatever he wants to do.

Sometimes, even when the cause of their injuries was out of their control, people felt others blamed them. It was somehow their fault.

Kenneth said others thought he was responsible for his injury; 'if you're the victim of crime,...

Kenneth said others thought he was responsible for his injury; 'if y'all're the victim of crime,...

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Sex: Male

You lot got to wonder whether it'southward all been changed for some reason or non, y'all got to wonder about that, whether it's God'southward will or something. I don't know. Highly unpleasant to say the least. But yep, you've got to wonder why information technology happened to you anyway. I mean nearly people are going to remember that, why me? Y'all know, what have you washed? I don't know. Apparently I overdress. At that place nosotros are. So, aye, I estimate I have been dressing downward for a while. I certainly accept, you know, actually for a long time I really wouldn't get dressed at all, y'all know, in my regard to dressing. Apparel downwards I suppose.

You would have dressed down since your injury?

Oh totally. Yeah, you experience much more vulnerable well you lot're well dressed. Yous know, nice three piece, Harris Tweed. Saville Row tailored suit, well yous know... I mean I suppose that'due south part of the reason they say, you know, you lot've fatigued attending to yourself. Just, you know, when that's what y'all sell, that's what you're going to wear so. That is the downside to that 1.

And who suggested that you overdressed or that you dressed too well?

Well, you know, somehow information technology'south, I retrieve people like to think information technology's your fault somehow, that you lot encouraged information technology. You know, I remember that'south the idea. I think more often than not near, somehow if yous're the victim of criminal offence, somehow y'all asked for information technology. That's what people are trying to infer. Well… that's what, yes a lot of, someone's got to be guilty and if they can't find the person and so patently it's you. And I suppose dressing in a certain way volition describe attention to yourself, much in the same way if a women is raped, you know, the idea that she might accept dressed in an inappropriate fashion has drawn attending to her, and therefore that'south the reason. Well information technology's that kind of logic.

But yous know, if you piece of work in the earth of style you lot only sort of, that'south just the way it is, you know. It would non exist possible for me to role badly dressed really. It just wouldn't piece of work. Coincidental's fine. Simply I'g perhaps a footling bit likewise sharp for some people.

People also were responsible for causing their own injuries; they were driving likewise fast, had been drinking alcohol or became involved in fights. Sometimes they worried what family or friends idea of them, which could cause feelings of guilt and shame. Sam idea it was unhelpful to dwell on how the injury is caused, saying it's "the worst use of your fourth dimension".

Last reviewed October 2015.

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